There is a tendency in our society that parents prefer to say “yes” to their children’s request. Do you think it is beneficial for the growth of children? Different people have different opinions. Some will agree with it, while some will against it. For me, I think this is not a simple question, and we must view the problem in its entirety.

我們的社會(huì)有一種趨勢(shì)，那就是父母偏向肯定孩子的要求。你認(rèn)為這有利于孩子們的成長(zhǎng)嗎？不同的人有不同的看法。有些人會(huì)贊成，但是有些人則會(huì)反對(duì)。對(duì)我來(lái)說(shuō)，我認(rèn)為這不是一個(gè)簡(jiǎn)單的問(wèn)題，我們要全面地看待。

For one thing, children need to be sure in their growing up. Children are so immature that they do not experience too much. Their inside hearts are very fragile. They need to be sure. When they are doing one thing, if they receive the affirmation from adults, they will be full of confidence and have the thought to have another try next time. But if the adult always deny their thought or behavior, they will lose their confidence, and even do not dare to have a try later. Thus, proper affirmation is good for the growth of children.

一方面，孩子們需要在被肯定的情況下成長(zhǎng)。孩子們那么的不成熟，因?yàn)樗麄儾](méi)有經(jīng)歷過(guò)什么。他們的內(nèi)心是很脆弱的。他們需要得到肯定。當(dāng)他們?cè)谧鲆患聲r(shí)，如果他們得到大人的肯定，他們會(huì)滿懷信心，會(huì)有下次繼續(xù)嘗試的想法。但如果大人總是否認(rèn)他們的想法或行為，他們就會(huì)失去信心，甚至以后都不敢再嘗試。因此，適當(dāng)?shù)目隙▽?duì)孩子的成長(zhǎng)是好的。

For another, too much affirmation will spoil children. As the one child policy puts into effect, most parents will spoil their unique children more, because they are the apple of their parents’ eyes. If the adult always say “yes” to their children’s request, their children will become little princess and little prince. In the long term, they will form negative habit, such as, selfish, arrogant and so on. It is not good for the growth of children.

另一方面，過(guò)多的肯定會(huì)寵壞孩子。由于獨(dú)生子女政策的實(shí)行，大多數(shù)父母都會(huì)更加寵愛(ài)他們唯一的孩子，因?yàn)樗麄兪歉改傅恼粕厦髦?。如果大人總是首肯孩子們的?qǐng)求，他們的孩子會(huì)成為小公主和小皇帝。從長(zhǎng)期來(lái)看，他們會(huì)形成不良的習(xí)慣，例如，自私，自大等等。這是不利于兒童的成長(zhǎng)。

To sum up, green light all the way for children is not always right. Adults should figure it out when should say “yes” and when should say “no”. They can’t always say yes or no to their children.

綜上所述，對(duì)孩子們一路紅燈并不總是正確的。大人應(yīng)該弄清楚什么時(shí)候該說(shuō)同意，什么時(shí)候該反對(duì)。他們不能總是支持或者反對(duì)他們的孩子。

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